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Is the Path to a Raise Through Having a Daughter?

Adv. Sasha Bogatirov·October 12, 2026·7 min read
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Is this relevant to you? Has your boss recently become a father? It might be time to ask for a raise.

Key takeaway

The most important point is that the birth of a first daughter may shift managers' perceptions of gender equality.

Does the Birth of a Daughter Change the Picture?

Naama, a dedicated employee at a high-tech company, wasn't expecting much when she heard her manager became a father to a daughter. But to her surprise, a few months later, she not only received a raise but was also offered a promotion to a managerial position. What happened next was a real shift in the manager's perception towards female employees. He began to reassess the contribution and potential of women in his team, and the results were quick to follow.

The most important point is that the birth of a first daughter may shift managers' perceptions of gender equality.

What Does the Law Actually Say?

Israeli law does not directly address the impact of a daughter's birth on managerial behavior, but the Equal Employment Opportunities Law (חוק שוויון הזדמנויות בעבודה, 1988) outlines the obligation to ensure equal treatment between men and women at work. This means that if a manager changes his behavior following the birth of a daughter, it can align with the spirit of the law promoting equality. The law primarily focuses on preventing direct and conscious discrimination, but a perceptual change like the one described can improve the organizational atmosphere and lead to more genuine equality. Legally, there is no obligation for managers to change their approaches following personal events, but if this change leads to equal opportunities, it aligns with the principles of the law.

When Is It Relevant — Checklist

  • ✓Has your manager recently become a father to a first daughter?
  • ✓Do you feel that your manager's attitude towards you has changed recently?
  • ✓Have more women received promotions or raises in your company?
  • ✓Do you feel the work environment has become more supportive and encouraging?
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The Law on Equal Opportunities

חוק רלוונטי
Equal Employment Opportunities Law
Defines the obligation to ensure equal treatment between men and women at work
Violation may lead to lawsuits and compensations

This law is intended to ensure that employers do not discriminate against employees based on gender, race, or other factors. If you feel that the attitude at your workplace has improved following your manager's daughter's birth, it is a positive sign for equal opportunities. However, it's important to ensure that changes are part of an ongoing process and not just a temporary response.

Questions Everyone Asks — But No One Asks the Lawyer

Is it legal to change work policy following managers' personal events?−
Yes, as long as the changes support equal opportunities and do not discriminate against employees.
How do I know if there is really a change or if it's just my feeling?−
Check if there are changes in the number of promotions and raises for women in the organization.
What to do if I feel discriminated against despite this change?−
Seek legal advice to explore the possibility of filing a discrimination lawsuit.
Should I approach my manager and ask for a raise because of the daughter's birth?−
It's worth evaluating the situation in the organization and seeing if it's a suitable time for such a conversation.
How to ensure that changes will continue and not be temporary?−
Encourage open dialogue on gender equality and collaborate with managers to promote the issue.

Real Situations — Which Side of the Line Are You On?

Accountant at an International Company

After her manager's daughter was born, she received a phone call notifying her of a salary raise. Result: Positive change.

Young Programmer at a Startup

Noticed that the manager started asking more about promoting women in the team. Result: Potential for change.

Secretary at a Law Firm

Did not feel any change in the manager's behavior despite the daughter's birth. Result: No change.

What to Do Right Now

The first step is to assess the atmosphere in the organization and see if there are real changes in the attitude towards women. If so, it might be time to consider approaching your manager to ask for a raise or promotion. If not, consider seeking legal advice. If you do nothing, you might miss out on opportunities to improve your position and salary at work. Don't miss the chance to advance yourself.

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